Tuesday, September 15, 2009
HI KOKO Superstars;
Today, I wanna share my thoughts about romantic relationships..
There is no perfect person, and there are no perfect relationships. All of us have our flaws. Sometimes the person you thought was a very dashing debonair or a beautiful sweet lady sweeping you off your feet on the start of your relationship, turns out to look like the wicked witch you wanna burn alive when time pass by.
But don't fret. There is a solution for that..and it's communication.
a healthy communication that is.
It's easier said than done.Because sometimes pride gets in the way, and one party might not want to succumb to the other's point of view.
The key here is to be open minded , I've heard one of my idol Borgy Manotoc say that in a relationship, you live 3 lives, 1 for yourself, 1 for your partner and 1 for the relationship.
When resolving your issues be selfless and consider the 3rd life (relationship)
The witch is not really a witch, she/he just turned that way because you are seeing the bad in him/her...Try to remember the things that made u fall in love for that person. Reminisce the good memories...Plan and make good things together, so you would have more to treasure and make you bond more. Maybe you could Play, Joke, Sing, Cook , go on Picnic, Go to the Beach together.A Great Relationship is being at each others side no matter what happens.
If you want to have a lasting relationship, COMMUNICATE.Not everyone is born a psychic.
Share your thoughts to your partner and deliver it in a nice loving way (even if you feel like shouting!!!)..breathe in , breathe out... In that way, you guys can sort out the problem and find solutions for it.
and most of all ....choose to stay rather than go away.