Tuesday, November 15, 2011
Lahat ng taong dadaan sa mundo na ito ay iibig...
Ganun ang sistema ng mundo,ng katauhan at isip natin....
Ganun tayo nilikha ng maykapal...
Mabuhay para umibig..
Pero bakit ganun?...minsan umiibig ka na, akala mo sasaya ka na...
akala mo yun na...pero hindi pala...
kasi ito ay bawal na pagibig...
Kakatuwa no? Hindi pala lahat ng pagibig ay pwede...
Andaming pagibig na bawal...
kung iisa isahin ko ito baka bukas pa ako matapos kakaexplain...
pero may ilan ako babanggitin
May mga tao na gusto mo man mahalin,ay hindi na pwede..hindi pwedeng maging bakaw...
sa simpleng rason na may mahal na silang iba..o may mahal na tayo..
pero minsan makulit ang puso , bawal na, ay pinipilit pa magnakaw ng mga sandali para makasama ang minamahal...kahit niloloko lang natin mga sarili natin na ito ay magtatagal...
May mga klase rin ng pagibig na ibinawal ng tradisyon, relihion at kultura...mahirap din kalaban yun...marami akong kilalang tao na sinunod na lang nila ang kanilang pamilya..o ang tingin ng susyodad, para lang di sila kutyain sa klase ng pagmamahal na pinagbawal ng mundong ginagalawan nila....di ko rin sila masisi...dahil di rin natin alam kung ano ang posibleng mawala sa kanila kung di nila susundin ang mga tinakdang batas sa kanila....
Pero, sa lahat ng sinabi ko...isa sa pinakamasakit ay ang BAWAL na Pagibig na sarili natin ang nagtakda....
bakit kamo?
dahil minsan ang tao na minamahal natin ay ginagawa tayong laruan.
Laruan na pwede nila itapon o balikan kung kelan nila gusto...
Iniisip nila na di tayo masasaktan kahit ano gawen nila...
laruan lang naman tayo e...at di tayo aaray at wala tayo karapatan magreklamo...
At minsan namamanhid na tayo sa pananakit...dahil iniisip kasi natin..mahal natin siya e..kaya kailangan tiisin...
pero kailangan nating magising sa katotohanan...
na isang araw isa ka na lang laruan na gunit gunit at wala ng silbi.....kaya wag mo na antayin dumating ang panahon na yun...
ipagbawal mo na ang ganung pag ibig.para sa yo...para sa pagmamahal mo sa sarili mo at sa mga taong nagmamahal ng tunay sa yo....at buuin ang iyong mga pangarap...
Lahat tayo sa mundong ito ay iibig....lahat tayo ay iibig sa BAWAL...me mga maling pinagbabawal at me mga tama na ipinagbabawal...kailangan maging matalino ang isip mo para malaman kung alin dun ang TAMA......sa mga sinasabing ....
BAWAL na PAGIBIG...
-tami ballesteros
PHOTO: TAMI BALLESTEROS PHOTOGRAPHY FASHION+COSMETICS: THE GLAM SHOP
Friday, March 4, 2011
1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.\
2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works."
4. A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.
5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.
6. "There" is no better than "here." When your "there" has become a "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."
7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.
8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.
9. Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.
10. This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.
(Cherie Carter-Scott)
Sunday, February 13, 2011
In this life, we only have our hopes and our dreams to hold on to.
These angel's voices makes me tear up. :)
Saturday, February 12, 2011
OMG Valentine na pala bukas. tapos less than 500 lang pala pera mo?
What to do?
Well don't despair I am here to give you great but cheap ideas on how to make your valentine day special with your loved one.
NO need to be extravagant because what counts is the thought that you put in what you do.
Lets begin:
1. Home coked candle lit dinner. Invite your jowa at your place, cook a special meal that he/she really really loves, and just set the table and ambiance nicely. (you can also buy the ingredients and cook together.)
2. Movie date night at home. Go to quiapo and buy great dibidis. prepare some special snacks both of you will enjoy (You don’t have to watch mushy movies or romantic chick flicks if you don’t want to. Any movie that you think you’ll both enjoy watching will do.)
3. A breakfast valentine date. Not all date should be done in the evening. Why not prepare something special for your baby, and give him/her a nice breakfast on bed. sweet! with matching flower na pinitas mo sa garden ng kapitbahay.
4. Make Romantic Gift Certificates. You can just write on paper that he/she is entitled to a sensual massage, or romantic dinner, a sexy Turkish bath, SWEET KISSES, or whatever he/she might like you to do. (but make sure its valid only til feb 14 so she'd claim it! haha)
5. Write a very nice and sincere letter and read it to him/her. Nothing is sweeter than hearing the voice of your loved one confessing their love to you...While your at it why not play your love theme song para mas cheesy pare!
and a very funny valentine song:
Sunday, February 6, 2011
...who'll never get tired of kissin' you everyday...
and here is a cute couple I photographed way back, paul & anj...ain't they sweet?
Thursday, August 12, 2010
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Tuesday, September 15, 2009
HI KOKO Superstars;
Today, I wanna share my thoughts about romantic relationships..
There is no perfect person, and there are no perfect relationships. All of us have our flaws. Sometimes the person you thought was a very dashing debonair or a beautiful sweet lady sweeping you off your feet on the start of your relationship, turns out to look like the wicked witch you wanna burn alive when time pass by.
But don't fret. There is a solution for that..and it's communication.
a healthy communication that is.
It's easier said than done.Because sometimes pride gets in the way, and one party might not want to succumb to the other's point of view.
The key here is to be open minded , I've heard one of my idol Borgy Manotoc say that in a relationship, you live 3 lives, 1 for yourself, 1 for your partner and 1 for the relationship.
When resolving your issues be selfless and consider the 3rd life (relationship)
The witch is not really a witch, she/he just turned that way because you are seeing the bad in him/her...Try to remember the things that made u fall in love for that person. Reminisce the good memories...Plan and make good things together, so you would have more to treasure and make you bond more. Maybe you could Play, Joke, Sing, Cook , go on Picnic, Go to the Beach together.A Great Relationship is being at each others side no matter what happens.
If you want to have a lasting relationship, COMMUNICATE.Not everyone is born a psychic.
Share your thoughts to your partner and deliver it in a nice loving way (even if you feel like shouting!!!)..breathe in , breathe out... In that way, you guys can sort out the problem and find solutions for it.
and most of all ....choose to stay rather than go away.
-Prince Tami
Monday, February 2, 2009
so are you thinking of ways to make your special someone happy this heart' month, try out these cool but inexpensive tips for sure they will work!
Purchase some clear red balloons. Before blowing them up, place either wrapped candies, small gifts, and/or love poems inside each one, and then give them to your loved one as a bouquet.
Make a meal only out of heart-shaped items, foods that are red, or both. Try making a spaghetti and shape them into small hearts or buy heart shape plates.. make a heart shape cake...make it chocolate to make it more romatic..yummm...
Embroider or print your names on a scarf, pillowsheet cover or shirt (example: Manilyn loves janno)
Write a love letter to say I love you.
Create handmade coupons with gifts your partner can use anytime, such as a massage or a night out on the town with friends, a dinner for two...sweet noh?
Does your partner ever ask you why you love them? Then create your own little booklet using cheap store bought booklet , just for them entitled, "Why I Love You: # Reasons".
Make a mixed CD of all of your favorite songs, or create a compilation of love songs that remind you of your mate. Better yet, learn how to play one of these love songs on the guitar and serenade him or her on Valentine's Day.
Make your own fortune cookies to take along to a Chinese food restaurant for dinner, and use them to woo your date on Valentine's Day.
Grab some construction paper and cut out as many hearts as you like. On each one, share a story about your relationship that shows how much you care. Once finished, take the hearts and string them individually from the ceiling so it looks like your home is raining love.
Take your relationship to the next level and propose.nakz
Hey Hey my friends, Valentine's Day is almost near...and you do not need to wait til that day to show your love to your special someone...here are my tips to rekindle your romance... everyday...hope you guys like it ,(by the way if you are a girl just replace the "her" with a "his/him"..ayt?)
1. Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out
2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.
3. Hug her from behind
4. Leave her voice messages to wake up.
5. Wrestle with her
6. Don't go hang out with you ex when shes not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.
7. If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.
8. Write her notes or call her just to say "hi"..and not just at night after you've already been out with other girls.
9. Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.
10. Play with her hair.
11. Pick her up
12. Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.
13. Make her laugh, if you can make her laugh, you can make her do anything.
14. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
15. If she's mad at you, kiss her.
16. If you care about her, then tell her
17. Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal(she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), jewelry (she'll treasure it forever), and one of his t-shirts (she'll most likely wear it to bed).
18. Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
19. Look her in the eyes and smile.
20. Hang out with her on weekends
21. Kiss her in the rain
22. Kiss her just for the heck of it
23. If your listening to music, let her listen too.
24. Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it's the thought that counts.
25. When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy.)
26. Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but its nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
27. Give her what she wants
28. Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
29. Tell her shes beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.
30. Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girl friend all the time
31. If u care about her...SHOW her!
