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Friday, September 2, 2011


How many times have you ever said goodbye to someone?

Im sure you have said it a lot of times...just like me....

but when i ponder about the word GOODBYE, is there really such a thing?
can you just say GOODBYE to someone and say its over?

As I get older I realized, all the people we have met, be it for a short or long period of time,
has become a part of who we are. We learn from them as much as they learn from us...They were the ones who molded the way we think at the present, they are an integral part of who we will become in the future.
Each and everyone of us is connected one way or the other. 

Have you ever heard of the BUTTERFLY EFFECT?
it's theoretical example is that a hurricane's formation is contingent on whether or not a distant butterfly had flapped its wings several weeks before.
And I believe in that too....

Just like the words I state here. To some these might just be letters written on a blogsite...
But to someone who understands the wisdom behind the things I write, it will result in an extreme change in his or her life...and the people around him or her.
example...The little good or bad action YOU do here in the Phils in 2011 could affect someone greatly, say, in Africa by 2020...
broaden your horizon and you will understand what I mean...


Now connecting that to goodbyes, I believe even if someone parts from you for any reason at all, be it geographical, or mabe you decided to part ways,,,,,,or maybe if they die..etc....It just strikes me that when you think about it deeply...
Goodbyes never do really exist...
Because ultimately all the people, things, events, experiences will always be a part of our lives...Even as simple as the flap of the butterfly wings,
the sight of God's beautiful nature,
the smile of a child, the care of our mothers, fathers, lovers,...
even people who hurt us...even bad or sad experiences..like a loss or death of a loved one...
they are all as important as each other.

For all of them has imparted wisdom that is now YOU. hence, "THEY" is equivalent to ''YOU"...
and YOU can not say GOODBYE to YOURSELF that is composed of all these treasured experiences you gained from the past to the present...from the smallest to the biggest things...
Just like a to a child going to sleep, don't say GOODBYE,...say GOODNIGHT...for in our hearts...Life and God's BEAUTY will never be OVER because We are all ONE.

and here is a nice favorite song that inspired me to write this blog entry,
Goodnight my friends....




2 comments:

Anonymous said...

BEAUTIFULLY WRITTEN.

Anonymous said...

thank you. this made me realize something. :)

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